That's exactly what I need though, thanks a bunch! Not sure I would really go to a forum to ask other people what they think I should get haha but the other comms look great. I'm not gonna do anything crazy I don't think... the idea of one single cartilage piercing scares the hell out of me (1 year to heal, really, 1 year?!)

As for tattoo, I'm up for it, but I just don't know what yet, or where. And you have to be able to say you're happy to have it for the rest of your life...